Okay I was just on Twitter and expressing my feelings about being the rebound chick for my ....yeah friends....I mean I'm not even going to touch on this subject any more and nor am I inviting them out anymore everyone has they lives to live and I must do the same so hanging up the old and hanging with the new. So sick of invites and being turned down ...that's real talk ....
Some chicks get some dyck and loose they dayum minds but like I have been told by the guys I talk with and the Mr. (What I call Tony on Twitter) some chicks aren't used to the attention, don't have men all over them all the time (smile) and don't have many options therefore when a dude shows them interest ...depending on the female they so pressed and excited they drop everyone and everything to become this mans sex toy or after hour friend .....the signs are there...he only see's her after 10pm or later....never takes her any where or maybe once every so often......she does much of the contacting and shyt ...... and they do nothing for the attention any little bit because who knows when the next guy may come.
That's when hanging with me comes in and I become the rebound chick when he breaks up with her for the trillionth time, when they argue and she has no idea where he is and hasn't gotten a call for a day and she wants to teach him a listen it's call Toni so we can hit the streets ........LOL...... yeah I'm venting and have decided this summer NO MORE ......NO MORE of being the rebound chick to the ....yeah no more. I'll always be a phone call away and ready to ride or die if I must with my road doggs (only 5 of them in the DMV and they know who they are) but as far as trying to get my girls to kick it this summer I'm done ...I'm gonna continue to do me and live my life happy and drama free ((MUAH)) .....well I'll always have a little drama these nucca's ...yeah
I was chill this weekend Friday
Tony and I went tot he movies to see The Proposal it was hilarious we both were cracking up and I mean out loud ....yeah people go see it. Movie night Friday's is so cool I had a nice time this time and stayed awake....(lol)
When we get home we chill with the kids
James went to stay the night at Jasmine's house.
Tony slept in his own room.
Saturday
I was debating on going to practice when Preacher Man called me to see if we were having practice he was coming from VA and said it was raining there.......I went to look outside and true to word it was pouring. I sent out a mass text to inform everyone practice was canceled.
Tony called me to see if I was up and we talked on the phone for a while.
Mo got up while I was on the phone with Lee and I told her to go tell Tony we wanted some breakfast. He went to the store to get the bacon and potatoes we had that and eggs.
While he was at the store Demar came over drunk as shyt. He just came straight to our house from hanging at his friends crib all night watching some chicks swing on a stripper pole. He even told me how him and Angel have been hooking up and she is whipped and yada, yada, yada now Tony had already told me this and told me not to tell so I didn't but since Demar is telling me I can spill the beans........Angel has not said anything to me but he even showed me the text she sent him too ....SMH........bragging nuccas just like females talk too much.
It turned out to be a nice day after all but I wanted to lay in I did take the kids out so we could get some cards for Tony.
He picked up Lil Troy who will be staying with us for the week as well
Tony slept in his
I talked with Lee who was on his way home from his home boys house and upset because of some shyt they said about him .....something about him being a soft ass nucca and some other not to friendly things. I finally told him "I'm gonna make you stop hanging with them in a minute because every time you come home your upset behind something they say".
him drunk of course "YOU CAN'T MAKE ME STOP DOING ANYTHING". on and on he went I took my phone from my ear until he calmed down then I let his ass have it he apologized and then we dicussed other things until I started falling asleep I said "Call me tomorrow".
him "No, you call me it's my day remember"?
me "Yeah, a nucca who doesn't celebrate holiday's right".(lololol)
Sunday
Turned out to be a beautiful day ....I went to the store and made breakfast for Tony Potatoes, bacon (turkey),spinach omelettes .....I ate with him.
I sent out Father's Day text (a mass one) and then sent Lee a personal one (wink) why did his ass text back "Thanks baby ((muah))". and then he called me "Wuz up"?
me "Boy didn't I say I would call you"?
him "I couldn't wait wanted to here your voice now". we rapped on the phone for a while he told be what his plans were for the day then we got off the phone.
I decided I would leave my phone in the room so I could spend the day with Tony. Which I did we got crabs and crab legs later on ....he went next door for their father's Day cookout ...I washed clothes ....then made Spaghetti, Salad and Garlic bread...
Tony and I watched a few movies together until he feel asleep (Benadryl Shellfish allergy) He stayed downstairs he was knocked out.
I saw I had 2 missed calls from Lee I called and we talked on the phone for a little while not talking about much.....except when would be the next time....um...yeah it's been almost two weeks and I am going thru withdrawal ...it is not a game I need to get...um...yeah ASAP....just thinking about how ...when he first...um ...yeah and it's um....yeah....then it gets in and OMG it's like ...man did I just cum already ....WOW ....um ...yeah I gots to get that tonight I'm gonna be on the stroll status tonight....leaving work early .....hitting him up...going to practice then to the movies with Tony as if none of the other shyt happened ....dayum....can we say "PRESSED". followed by "DAYUM RIGHT"......LOL
Monday
Work was work ....let's see talked with Lee the boy's are gone ....their aunt picked them up for I wanna say the week or maybe that's wishful thinking ......hitting it all week ....got dayum ......anyway that is what I thought would happen but the forces had something else in mind.
T has been calling me a whole lot more. It's cool talking with him again he's a cool guy and I hold a place for him in my heart (awww blush)
Okay so anyway the Golden Girls haven't been talking about much I guess Sherellie is getting ready for her 40th B-Day party this Saturday which I completely forgot about thanks Dianna 4 da reminder (wink) I will be there ....wish I could bring Lee ...but then again he wouldn't want to come....he doesn't want to hang with my friends ....I can understand why so I would never push the issue we can make our own friends together.
So back to Monday
I didn't go to kick ball practice I stayed at work getting that OT.
I wanted to go straight to Lee's house after work but I was in a shy mood and didn't want to just say "Hey, Lee I'm coming over". .......I know I have done that before but haven't in a while and was feeling shy ...more afraid of rejection ....I know weird but hey that's how I am.
I ended up chilling we spoke on the phone and I even ...okay this is gonna sound nuts ....but to be honest this man be having me do some nutty shyt. .....okay ....wait...I always give you guys the truth ...why???? anyway ....I drove about 3 minutes from his house ....he called me ....I pretended I was coming home from some where else and then drove home talking to him all the way home. (SMH so fugging weird)
We watched a comedy show together .....laughing and shyt.
Now listen to the BS.....I told you guys I can hear when Lee's other line beeps right?
well he got a call at 1:12am he didn't answer they called back again at 1:15pm and he clicks over ....I don't even hold a full minute I just hang up......now when ever he clicks back over to me or calls me back he tells me who it was on the phone.....so I was like WOW this time around.....about 2 minutes later he calls me back...and begins talking about am I going to be working OT and then hits me with a fake ass yawn and how tired he is.....SMH......what for??? why hit me with the BS??? So you can call ole girl back in the exactly in 15min...I mean he's only a sidekick ....and ATTENTION sidekick now hear this YOUR ONLY THE SIDEKICK.
Tony was gone out but once I was in bed I sent him a text to check on him "You okay"?
him "Yeah I'm home". there he was using the back door closer to his room again. I sent back "Can you come see me"? and when he came in my room I jumped his bones .....his dyck wouldn't get hard and I was instantly no longer horny ....he tried to get me back in the mood but his hands and lips on me felt like ...yuck ...it was weird. We did end up getting it in .....first thing in the morning
Tuesday
Oh not sure if I mentioned it or not but our God Daughters Po and Ariel came over Sunday to spend the whole week with us.
Tony took some money too Tonique Sunday as well
anyway
yesterday Mo woke up sick Necole called me and said Mo's Temp was 103.8 man when I got home it was the same took her to the ER last night it was 104.2 .....viral infection and UTI they gave my baby IV fluids and got home from ER a little before 4am ...yeah I'm working off 2 hours sleep
no time to edit I'm leaving work for the rest of the day in 10 min
Bravenet Blog 
Blog Community
Get a Free Blog
Manage your Blog
bravenet.com