Yaw Rude Boy be lunchin for real .........Yesterday I worked the Parttime job. I'm in need of extra cash for real since the casinos had no love for a sistah Saturday night plus I think they won't be needing me after this month is out .

While I was at work Rude calls "Can I see you tonight"? me "I'm at work and work late tonight I'll hit you up in about a hour". him "Cool". When I call him back he's like "So am I going to see you tonight"? me "I don't think so I had a sleepless weekend and am really tired". him "I won't keep you long come go with me". me "Go where Rude"? I can tell he's kinda afraid to say what he wants to say "Weeeeell where Rude Boy come on ask me"!! I yell him " Come go with me to see the strippers ".  oh no he didn't just ask me that shit me"What? why would you ask me to go see the strippers"? him "I never been to see the strippers with a woman before plus we can just chill at the bar" . me "Naw". him "Come on they dance tonight at the Legend you scared". me laughing "Boy, I've had more then my share of seeing the strippers aint nobody hardly scared'. him "Then come on". me "Naw". him "Okay lets go to a sports bar then". me thinking ..........."I like the stripper idea better". He starts smiling through the phone and then laughing out loud  him "See lets go". me "I'll call you before I leave work. As soon as I hang up with him I text one of my friends and ask her if she wants to roll with me she has never seen the female strippers and I know she has said she wants to check them out sometime so I call her to see what's up. But she can't roll this time which is cool.

Rude calls me when I get home "You home yet"? me "Yeah". him "Alright talk to you in a second". BUZZ....BUZZ goes the sound of my cell alerting me I have a text ......Rude Boy "So u scared". me "LOL ....never scared ur funny"! him "So no date 2 nite"? me "U call takin me 2 c the strippers a date? damn Rude". him "Naw, my bad not a date just hanging out". me "Much better". him "So can we do this". me "Do what"? him "Start c n more of each other". me "What"? him "I know ur married I can deal wit that". me "What do u want from me Rude Boy"? him "Just ur time 4 now". me "Ok.....I guess I can TRY giving u more of my time ....we'll c". him "& no bullshit lines either I'm comin 4 real all truth from here on out" .  me "C there u go wit that bullshit .....damn u fuckin up already don't bullshit me ....the truth from here on out ....yeah....rite". It took me like 20min to text that one. him "damn u slow lol". me "Gotta go"  him "Okay later".

Tony came up from the basement to go pick up James from work for me since Hero's was coming on and I didn't want to miss any of it. Tony fried some fish for dinner , chicken nuggets since Mo is allergic to fish and he made grits along with the left over macaroni and string beans I made the night before. Before I got to texting Rude he called me downstairs to watch some of Oprah on his DVR .....yes, he is taping Oprah just like I do upstairs that man is crazy .....anyway the Oprah show was about a lady who got her family $175,000.00 debt. I guess he wanted me to see it cause she reminded him of me........I wanted to say "fool your money aint even that long for us to be that far in debt"!!! but I just watched until I got the text then I went upstairs.

I was in bed after Heros watching the strories when I decided to call and talk to bbs for a while I always send her a text first that says Can you talk"? because her man be lunchin when she be on the phone always all in the convo. She called me and we just talked about our weekend, Rude Boy I told her he asked me to the strip joint and she said I should have called her she would have went with me me "For real I didn't know you would want to go". her "I've never been before but I just wanna see". me "I got you next time for sure". Damn so maybe my gaydar was right about her after all , we talked about this dude Mitch she met, money, kids, I kept flirting with her but not sure if she caught on or maybe she did but was just ignoring it. I wish I wasn't so shy anyway we ended with hooking up to go to the mall this weekend shopping and lunch.

Shay has been watching the stories with me and she laid in the bed watching it with me last night until I ended up falling alseep then she woke me up to say "Mom turn it off we'll finish it tomorrow".  Her and Mo both had slight fevers last night 99.5 and 99.3 I gave them both Nyquil before they went to bed. This morning no more fever but they both still have a cough and Shay say's her throat is still sore. I hate when they are sick

Well yesterday was jersey day at school football jersey day  Necole wore one of my old Texan Jersey's. James didn't participate. Today is flashback the 9th grades have the 90's and the 11th graders have the 70's they both particiapted in this one. Tomorrow were going to get their outfits for the dance.

I was on time to work today and Mo was early for school too.

I told Rude I would see  him after work today so I brought a change of clothes if he calls then I will go. .......Maybe he wont call.